Carolyn Hax: A dying relative; a defensive sibling; tenuous relationship status

<b>http://tinyurl.com/ce4hnbo - <a href='http://tinyurl.com/ce4hnbo'>Amy Dickinson: Saying no to sex adds to your choices</a></b><p>Dear Amy: I am in my mid-20s and recently decided that the next time I am in a relationship, I do not want that relationship to be sexual until I am either engaged or married (in other words, until I have a ring on my finger and we are seriously ...and more&nbsp;&raquo;</p><B>Why Do You Want To Be in a Relationship?</b><p>If you are a person who wants to be in a relationship, have you thought about why? Actually, there are two very different reasons for wanting a relationship. The first is about what you want to get, and the second is about what you want to learn and share.</p><B>Carolyn Hax: A dying relative; a defensive sibling; tenuous relationship status</b><p>Dear Carolyn: My grandma is dying — they found cancer too late. She went from being moderately healthy to having only a couple of months left. I live 10 hours away by car. My sister lives six hours away by plane. Neither of us knows when to be there ...and more&nbsp;&raquo;</p>